We have already told you about the 52nd Idate online dating conference. It brought together matchmakers, representatives of marriage agencies, and online dating applications.
We gathered to exchange experiences and draw more attention to such an important and valuable topic.
During speed networking, we were asked to sit comfortably and get to know the largest number of conference participants. The trick was that some were sitting still, while others were changing to the next interlocutor every five minutes. Opposite me, faces were constantly changing, but for some reason, it was she who attracted special attention.
A shock of blond, beautifully styled hair and a pair of blue eyes. Serious look. Without hesitation (we only have five minutes), I ask: “Who are you? What do you do? Why here?”. In response, I hear not the usual “so many years in the industry and the name of the resource/agency”, but an unusual phrase.
My name is Julia Lanske. I help women become happy.
In a calm voice, Julia tells me the basic information about her field of activity and does it so excitingly that it makes me chat with her for another hour after all the speeches. I am impressed.
Why are half a million women subscribed to Julia?
Julia Lanske is a certified women’s trainer, an expert in building relationships with successful men, a certified coach, and the author of more than 20 effective training programs for women. And a happy wife. This is perhaps the strongest argument because only an experienced person can transfer experience.
She does not engage in ordinary matchmaking (they say, you are lonely, he is lonely – you are the perfect couple). Julia teaches women at webinars and training, helping them find that very, “own” man.
A girl who comes to me must trust!
Lanske’s concept is to draw a middle formula between obsessive huntresses and humble librarians.
Julia does not focus on women in their 20s with model looks and perfect English. Even a divorced woman with three children can be married off. It will take much more time, but the result will be even more pleasant. Doesn’t this mean that Julia Lanske believes in miracles? Miracles happen when you help them!
Julia is skeptical about apps like Tinder. You can’t choose a person like a bun in a supermarket. It’s disgusting!
In our conversation, my interlocutor often appeals to the fact that no one teaches us how to build a family. And Lanske sees in this not only a problem but also the lack of an answer to such an important request.
Therefore, a certified coach decided to take on a difficult mission – using training programs to bring a woman from the state of “I want to get married” to the state of “ready to get married, I know who I need and how to behave with him.”
And you know what’s most interesting? She succeeds.
Julia Lanske and international marriages
I have repeatedly tried to understand why so many people in the industry are focusing on more than just local marriages.
Julia graduated from the Faculty of Informatics and Control Systems, which means that she is not afraid of numbers. And then he talks about statistics:
Russia ranked first in the number of divorces in the world (according to 2016), and Ukraine – 4.
There are 86 men per 100 women in our country.
The number of marriages between Ukrainian women and foreigners has doubled over the past 10 years.
It is this statistic that haunts the professional coach. Therefore, she does not refuse to work locally, but she is not afraid to enter the international market.I do not need to sit in the office of your city. You are from St. Petersburg, he is from Dubai, but this is not a problem. Wasn’t the Internet created for such communication?
Pragmatic Europeans
Nobody says that Europeans don’t get divorced. But the institution of marriage abroad is much stronger. Seriously. Their approach to marriage is completely different: they think longer, take a closer look, and assess the risks.
Feelings are great, but you need to be more pragmatic and take into account all the factors of divorce.
Italians, for example, will wait for a divorce for 3 (!!!) years. It is of no use and no interest to anyone.
Today’s Achievements
Again numbers. Now I like them too.
More than 250 pairs.
30 children were born in couples created by Julia.
60 children found a new dad or a new mom.
60% of marriages are local, and 40% are international.
Cool! Julia’s work can be seen in numbers, and for trust, it is simply necessary.
Julia actively promotes social networks, because it is simply paramount to attract a young audience.
