Some couples dream passionately about having a baby, and some cannot realize their plan due to health problems. However, there are situations when only one of the partners has a desire to have children. What if the beloved does not want to have children?
To find a way to solve a problem, you need to understand what is causing it. Try to determine why the husband refuses to replenish the family.
Woman’s lack of confidence
If a man doubts his wife, he will perceive the appearance of a child as an attempt to bind him to himself. Your task is to prove to your beloved that you can be relied upon. Praise him more often, support him, show that you are ready to listen at any time. Men appreciate sincere care.
It’s all about the money
The decision to have a child is a big step. In order to raise a son or daughter, significant financial investments will be required. Spouses who are about to become parents may have concerns about whether they will be able to fully provide for themselves and the child. However, do not constantly put off motherhood. Yes, expenses are inevitable, but if every family doubted their financial capabilities, so many children would not be born. It will take many years to achieve material well-being: it is likely that after so much time there will be no physical opportunity to give birth to a baby.
Medical problems
Sometimes one of the potential parents is worried that you are at risk and can give birth to a handicapped child. Perhaps someone from the immediate family had miscarriages or unsuccessful pregnancies. If there are no real reasons for excitement, and the fear does not go away, the best way out is to visit a psychologist together.
Fear of parting
Did someone you know to set a not-too-good example? Did your man’s work colleague’s family break up after the baby was born? Then it is not surprising that he is worried about whether your union will overtake the same fate. Prove to your loved one: your family has nothing to do with what is happening in other families. Here, you will also need maximum care and love.
Husband has children from a previous marriage
If your current spouse has several marriages behind him, maybe he already has a child. Explain to your husband that you have not yet had time to become a mother. Tell me how much you want to have a common baby. In no case do not give ultimatums and do not try to get pregnant “accidentally”. The decision of both partners must be conscious.
