The male ego is fragile, like a soap bubble, and if it bursts from the realization that a woman drives better or achieves greater success in her career, then imagine what will happen to him if you say something wrong in bed. How to keep the gentle psyche of a man after sex?
We have collected the most creepy and unpleasant themes and phrases that you can find. Should I talk about it with a man after sex? Only if you want it to be your last.
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STOP 5: Terrible topics to talk about in bed
Questions relating to sex do not give us rest. If you don’t want to cross out the months of your relationship with one phrase, find out what you shouldn’t talk about in bed with a man.
criticize his actions
Constructive criticism is helpful, but not always appropriate. Are you sure that your loved one will be pleased to hear a remark during sexual caresses? This does not mean that you need to be silent when you are uncomfortable or hurt. Explain to the man what the matter is, but without reproaches and moralizing. It is better to leave the discussion of the partner’s mistakes for later. Such a conversation should take place outside the bedroom.
Lead by example to other men
Even a self-confident man can be daunted by being compared to an ex. Especially if the remarks are made in the style: “But Seryozha knew how to do this …”. Not a single macho wants to compete with the image from your past and, moreover, to endure the invisible presence of a third in bed.
The size of the male penis is one of the most burning topics for representatives of the strong half of humanity. You will never be forgiven for a question from the category: “Is that all?”. Do not make fast conclusions. Let the lover show himself in all its glory. It is better to comment on the size, shape, and other characteristics of his dignity only in a positive way. If you can’t give a compliment, keep quiet.
talk a lot
When a man is aroused, he doesn’t want to listen to you talk about shopping with his girlfriends or discuss going to a restaurant this coming weekend. Excessive talkativeness is not only annoying but also knocks you out of a romantic mood. If you don’t want sex with this partner to be your last, better keep your mouth shut. You can exchange emotions and events of the day in a cafe or in the kitchen. Extra talk during sex interferes with both lovers.
Plan
Questions like “Let’s get married?” or claims that you have already come up with the names of your future children are inappropriate during sexual intercourse. Yes, in a fit of passion, a man is ready to promise you mountains of gold. And the next morning it will be gone. Do not bring up the topic of marriage during sex, especially if you have been dating a partner not so long ago.
STOP 5: Inappropriate Conversation Phrases
There are also a few phrases that you should save for internal monologue, and not for talking with a guy. The male ego is fragile, like a soap bubble, we remind you.
“Oh, are you done already?”
You can hint a little less subtly, offer to extend the prelude, but just do not speak directly and on the forehead. This phrase can literally tear to shreds the gentle ego and self-confidence of any man, and then a very unpleasant situation will turn out.
“What a small one!”
First, commenting on other people’s genitals is ugly. And secondly, a man did not choose to be born with a certain length, and jiving him for losing the genetic lottery is a so-so feat, not chivalrous.
“Well, it happens to everyone”
Our psyche helps to calm down after a failure if someone else has achieved the same result. But this is not about sex. A man will not rest from the news that millions of other men around the world are “losing” in bed.
“Here’s my ex!”
No need. Just don’t.
“And how many girls did you have before me?”
It’s better not to ask questions if you don’t want to know the answers to them
