Blowjob myths haunt us quite often and significantly spoil the sex life, especially for those who are inclined to believe in them. Is everything so scary in oral sex, as they say on the forums? Is it possible to catch something from a blowjob? Is it true that blowjob pleasure can not be obtained? We debunked the most popular blowjob myths.
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Myth #1. During a blowjob, you often have to spit
Not a single man cares how the process is organized and how it goes. Saliva is an integral part of a blowjob, and usually, no one pays any attention to it. But if you constantly interrupt to wipe your mouth or spit, you can completely ruin the whole process.
Myth #2. You can’t get an STD from a blowjob
In fact, sexually transmitted diseases do not care whether you have oral sex or not. If there are microcracks or wounds in the mouth, you can get infected. If you are unsure about your partner, use a condom.
Myth #3. Spitting out is safer
Sperm ends up in the mouth anyway, so it’s worth watching myth #2 debunking and using a condom with an unverified partner. It all depends, of course, on the infection, but you should still take care of yourself.
Myth number 4. Herpes cannot be contracted through oral sex
In fact, although there is not much research, it is safe to say that with an untested partner with whom you have not known for so long or do not fully trust, you should use a condom and not tempt fate.
Myth number 5. During a blowjob, you can injure a member
Horror stories are full of forums where you can seriously damage your penis and send your partner to a hospital bed just during a blowjob. In fact, this is not entirely true. Of course, you can overdo it, but if you do blowjob carefully, the chances of sending a young man to an appointment with a traumatologist are quite small.
Myth number 6. girl must give a blowjob
“If you have critical days, you need to give the guy a blowjob, because he has needs!”
In fact, guys don’t want sex as often as they might seem, so you don’t owe anything if you don’t want to. There are many other ways to add spicy notes during critical days, and a blowjob is not a must-have.
Myth number 7. A man always wants to ejaculate in his mouth
This myth also has no foundation, because everyone likes it differently, and this is rarely the most important thing. Just negotiate with a partner, find common desires and embody them.
Myth number 8. It’s enough just to pay attention to the penis
Scientific fact: there are a lot of nerve endings in the scrotum, so during a blowjob you can use it for more pleasure. The main thing is not to compress.
Myth number 9. Must do deep blowjob
In fact, the most sensitive area is the head, so for a good blowjob, you don’t need to take the whole penis into your mouth at all.
Myth number 10. blowjob is humiliating
It’s normal for both partners to like it. If one of the partners for some reason does not like oral sex, you can … not do it! In this matter, the main thing is to be able to negotiate with a partner, discuss your desires and unwillingness.
Myth number 11. Blowjob can vomit
Indeed, deep blowjobs can cause nausea due to the gag reflex, but other techniques never do.
