Even in good and strong relationships, there are times when they are tired. When the routine made its way not only into life but also into the bedroom. You still want sex, but it seems that you have already studied each other to the point of nausea and tried everything you could imagine.
How to diversify your sex life, not at the expense of losing a partner and relationships.
Remember the old
To begin with, remember the simple principle that everything new is a well-forgotten old. And if you once drove your partner into a frenzy by simply giving him a blowjob in a car, then repeat this trick. Remember your most vivid sexual moments and spend them again.
Change place or time
Often, for a sense of novelty, it is enough just to change the ritual – change the time of sex or place. If you are used to having sex in the evening in the bedroom, then try it one day in the afternoon and on the kitchen table. The same partner, the same posture, the same sex, only in slightly different circumstances, will give the familiar process a sharpness of novelty.
Begin with yourself
If you are bored yourself, then try to introduce variety into sex, starting with yourself. Don’t expect changes from your partner. And even more so, do not make claims that he did not guess that your sex life is boring and it’s time to revive it. First, do something unusual and unusual for yourself. For example, if you and your husband are invited to a party, then come to it without panties. No one will know about this except him. But your feelings are guaranteed to change. Send your husband a playful “I forgot to wear panties today” message, or just put them in his pocket when you leave the house. Or drag him into the guest bathroom for a quickie.
Finding inspiration
Watch porn. Not necessarily together. But there will always be something that you didn’t do or that didn’t cross your mind. And I don’t mean now, some kind of hard perversion or acrobatics. And in general, you don’t need to roll your eyes “horror-horror” at the very word “Porn”. In porn stories, you can peep, for example, some new blowjob techniques or get a new idea for role-playing games.
Sexy compliment
Give your man some compliments on a sexual theme, write him an SMS about what a giant he is and how you love his “big dick inside”, and what a vivid orgasm you experience with him. For men, the topic of their size and their potency is always very exciting. One way or another, all men, even with outstanding sizes, worry about whether they have big enough and whether their woman is satisfied enough. If you have already said all this more than once and your husband already knows everything about your orgasms, repeat it again anyway. There are never too many sexual compliments for a man. And a man who is sure that he is a “sex giant” for his woman works wonders, even if in terms of parameters he does not look very much like a giant.
New clothes
Buy a toy in a sex shop. Even if your home arsenal can rival the selection of any sex shop, there is always something slightly different in color, shape or size. And everything that is even a little different than the usual is perceived as new. You can try this toy yourself by sending your man a photo report about how it was. Or you can try it together. Both options will bring novelty to the usual process.
Watch porn. Not necessarily together. But there will always be something that you didn’t do or that didn’t cross your mind. And I don’t mean now, some kind of hard perversion or acrobatics. And in general, you don’t need to roll your eyes “horror-horror” at the very word “Porn”. In porn stories, you can peep, for example, some new blowjob techniques or get a new idea for role-playing games.
Change Activity
Often, for a change, it is enough just to change the activity. If you are used to being more led in bed, following a man, then try to be active yourself. Initiate sex or position changes. If you’re always on the bottom, try to be on top. If you’re liberated enough, try playing with handcuffs. At first, a man binds you and will be active, then you can try the other way around.
Down with fear
Don’t be afraid to experiment. Often for new sensations, it is enough just to change the angle a little. Remember that both of you are responsible for your sex life, and in general for coexistence. You should not sit like a princess in a tower and wait for the partner to guess and do something like that. Innovate yourself. Discuss them, share your fantasies with each other. It happens that the discussion process is so exciting that it does not matter whether you have reached a realization. Don’t worry about what someone else thinks of you. Only you two know about your intimate life. And everything that brings pleasant impressions to both of you is possible in it.
