The prelude smoothly turns into rapprochement … And now – at the most interesting place! – some inappropriate thought comes to mind. And then it’s pointless to try anymore … Who are they, the enemies of orgasm? What is usually the easiest way to scare him?
In women, things with orgasms are not at all the same as in men. Unfortunately, not everyone experiences it, and if they do, it is not often at all. Although it is shown differently in the movies, couples have passionate sex and peak at the same time. If only it was like that in real life.
But the difference is that women on the screen don’t think about their lives during sex, don’t worry about how they look, and don’t wonder if he loves them. So, today we will look at the most common reasons why a girl can be left without the desired result. All you have to do is find yours and fix it.
Bad weather
It would seem that all seasons are good for love. In summer, sensuality is inflamed by light and short clothes, winter calls to warm up with a warm partner, spring intoxicates with fresh aromas, and autumn inspires a desire to hide from rainy longing on someone’s shoulder.
But everyone still has their times of not the best shape, and weather-dependent ones even more so. For example, there are people who react painfully to heat, while for others the killer of all pleasure is cold.
So if a partner reacts to attempts at seduction without enthusiasm, he may just be uncomfortable sweating, or trembling.
If it is you who is weather dependent, find out exactly how the weather affects you. Since often we can just feel unwell and wait for it to end. But this way you can miss a lot, and it’s not always possible to really get excited. Therefore, moments of intimacy must be protected. Prepare for yourself a few remedies that will quickly act on your ailment, so that you can enter into intimacy without fear, knowing exactly when your ill health will recede.
Excessive clearance
A responsible girl, thoroughly suitable for everything, is able to purchase three scents that kindle desires, a set of the most erotic accessories and aphrodisiacs, pink handcuffs, and some special balls for change …
And all this will be carefully combined. Well, if the partner does not have an allergic reaction … So these remedies are good when you have already studied each other and both are ready to experiment.
At the stage of “sexual acquaintance”, the enumeration of “technical means” is more likely to scare away than attract.
Moreover, if you constantly keep some toys in your attention, you will not be able to relax and enjoy the process.
Inappropriate environment
Unexpected loud sounds from behind the wall can frighten and stop in the midst of the most gentle caresses, even if they don’t torment cats at all, but just the neighbors also make love.
For some reason, from the outside, moans and cries of passion sound more funny than erotic! .. And if you come across them especially passionate and loudly expressing themselves, it’s good if you have different biological clocks, that is, different times of inclination to cupids. And then you have to think about the soundproofing of the room …
Unnecessary conversations
A lot of people do not like deathly silence in bed. Especially talkative women. However, there are such words and expressions that it is better to really at least chew than to use them.
Here are some clarifying questions. In principle, there is nothing wrong with their very fact, on the contrary: the sooner you find out what your partner likes more, the less time it will take for reconnaissance maneuvers.
But some questions baffle, leading out of the strongest pre-orgasmic state. A typical example is a partner who is able to ask, already when the partner catches the approaching “wave”: “Tell me, do you like making love with me?” What will you answer here? Unless: “You know, I haven’t thought about it yet!” Or: “It’s harmful to watch erotic films in a bad translation!”
Doubts and suspicions
To frighten off pleasure, it is possible not to speak at all. Enough to think. If possible, tense. Preferably, about something completely unrelated to the very process of merging your essences. About pregnancy (as “if only it worked out”, and “if only it passed”). About appearance (“Are my folds on the sides visible in this position?”).
About problems (“does he really love me, and if so, will he offer at least this time his hand and heart?”). About jealousy (“but doesn’t the only one smell of someone’s suspicious competing perfumery?”). If you think carefully about something like this, you can soon ask yourself with surprise: what am I doing here, in fact?
In the nude, at a strange activity, with some man… No, reflection is useful before
