We’ll show you how to get the most out of it. Many would agree that pregnancy is one of the best times in a woman’s life. However, at the same time, pregnant women are often haunted by the excitement that something might happen. Fear of the unknown, painful toxicosis, imperfect tests… All this makes you be very careful.
Particularly controversial during this period is the issue of sex. Can they do it? It seems that giving up sex for nine months when hormones are in full swing is not a good idea.
Only a gynecologist who manages your pregnancy can give a clear answer. As you know, if there is at least a minimal risk that sex can harm the unborn child, you will hear a categorical “no”. But when a mother feels well, and there are no contraindications, wanting closeness with her beloved is absolutely normal. And you shouldn’t be holding back.
By the way, scientists also tried to find the answer to the exciting question. For example, specialists from the University of Malaysia conducted an experiment in which 1100 pregnant women took part at 35-38 weeks. The first group was assured that it was safe to have sex during pregnancy, and the second was told that the effect was still unknown. As a result, approximately 80% of women in both groups made the decision to have intimacy with a partner. The rates of preterm birth in both groups were almost the same. So you can’t associate it with making love. Note that the duration of pregnancies was approximately 39 weeks for all participants.
Therefore, when you decide, the question arises: “How?”. Believe me, your stomach will not be a hindrance. On the contrary, it will be an opportunity to try new interesting poses. Today we will talk about them in more detail.
Dancing from above
The cowgirl position has already become a classic in the world of sex. This is the best option for women in a position who still want to keep the situation in their hands. There are a lot of pluses: firstly, nothing presses on the stomach, and secondly, you control the strength and depth of penetration.
In dancing from above, there are two options for the development of events. You can be face to face with your partner or sit with your back turned to him. It is important to know that in the last terms, the classic up and down movement can bring discomfort. So try to move back and forth, and also use your partner’s arms, hips, or knees as support. Ultimately, this will help reduce the physical stress experienced by a woman in a position.
It’s no secret that men really like the cowgirl pose. They love to see their beloved in all its glory, to have free hands and caress her. Be in front of his eyes, and let him be crazy about you!
Doggy style
A lot of people are known to dislike this pose, but we think it’s time to finally give it a try. And the pregnant tummy will not become an obstacle. Rest on your knees and palms, and keep your legs together (in ordinary life, you would spread your knees as much as possible, but now the legs should be between the men’s). He will be attached to the back and will move. Your task is to keep balance and enjoy the process!
This position will become especially comfortable during the first two trimesters – there will be no special pressure on the stomach. In the future, you can put a pillow under your stomach. Also, talk to your man so that the penetrations are as gentle as possible.
Spoons or on the side
The spoon position is considered one of the most comfortable during pregnancy. It does not involve much activity, so it is suitable for women in the last stages. The penetration depth is not great, so you can not be afraid of abdominal pain. For extra comfort, place a couple of pillows under your knees and make sure your partner doesn’t put too much pressure on your stomach.
Sex on the side is comfortable not only on the physical but also on the emotional level. Agree, it’s very romantic when a loved one hugs you from behind. Another life hack for pregnant women is to choose a position on your left side. Indeed, during pregnancy, the uterus can put pressure on the vena cava, which carries blood to the lower body. Do you want it to be even more pleasant? Hold the vibrator between your legs or ask him to use his fingers.
Romance on the couch
Intimacy in interesting places can be tried during pregnancy. This time, trade your favorite bed for a sofa. Lie on your back with your tailbone on the edge of the couch. Spread your legs wider and place them on the floor. You can start with foreplay. Let him do cunnilingus, after which you will feel like a queen!
Then the man kneels in front of you and controls the process. More comfort will again be provided by pillows that can be placed under the buttocks (to even out the levels and achieve the perfect angle, so to speak).
In the later stages, the posture will have to be corrected, because lying on your back with a large belly is more uncomfortable. Try the low reclining chair option and use the pillows again (just put them under your back or head).
On my knees
He sits on a bed or chair with his legs folded under him, and you sit on his lap. In the early stages, you can sit face to face, and after six months, turn your back to your partner. If you wish, place a blanket or pillow under your belly to make it easier.
Take your time and enjoy each other. The position guarantees gentle and pleasant sex, which can be diversified every time. For example, using a vibrator or touching in specific places.
