How to understand on the first date that he only wants sex from you? It’s pretty easy if you “monitor” a young man according to our list of signs.
“Men only want one thing,” goes the famous cliché. And yes, yes, of course, we know that not all men need only sex, and we agree that men even have a soul, a desire to love and build a nest. However, in this article, we will chat about those men who start a relationship just for the sake of breaking off.
Did you notice that half of these signs are about your young man? Well, don’t make big plans for it.
What to do if a guy only wants sex?
Here everything depends on you. If you planned great love with him – well, alas, but the plans will have to be deployed in the other direction (with another man, since they roam everywhere on planet Earth and there is a choice)
If these relationships are not very serious and important for you, and the guy himself is a good lover, you can afford to have fun once or twice.
How to know that he only wants sex
So, it’s time to use the detective skills that each of us invariably has, and check whether this guy is so honest in dealing with you and whether everything is pure in his intentions.
By the way, boys, these signs are also suitable for women, so if it seems to you that your person is with you only for the sake of sex, check her on the same points.
It all comes down to sex
If all he wants from you is sex, all your conversations come down to only him. You tell him that there are problems at work, and he answers you that sex is the best cure for problems. You show him vacation photos, and he is only interested in those where you are sunbathing on the beach in a swimsuit. You are wondering what to buy a pie for dinner with, and he starts telling you that you should always have sex for dinner, not pie.
If so, girlfriend, then in your relationship someone needs only sex.
You don’t have any plans
“No sex – no common plans.” If your boyfriend wilts when he hears about any activity that doesn’t involve sex and comes up with the banalest date ideas that end up the same, it’s time to rethink.
When a guy only wants sex, he does not want to spend time and money on other entertainment.
You don’t know his loved ones
When a man only wants sex, he is by no means in a hurry to bring you into his life a little deeper. If you have been together for several months, but he has never even introduced you to his friends, then it’s time to think about:
- “Does he have any friends at all?
- “What if he’s embarrassed by me?
- “But doesn’t he just want me for sex?”
The fact is that as soon as a man finds a wonderful girl who he really likes, he begins to behave like a chicken that has just laid an egg: he runs around his friends and relatives and cackles about what kind of gold has fallen into his life. So if they don’t brag about you and don’t try to introduce you to everyone at once, it’s worth considering.
He praises only your appearance
You can save the planet, be the youngest billionaire, save him from a dragon, but he always says, “Sweetheart, your ass is a peach today”? Well, he probably only wants sex from you. Or he doesn’t appreciate you as a person. Ugh.
You don’t sleep together or have breakfast
If after sex he is in a hurry to disappear or sends you out, you should think about whether everything is in order with your relationship, because most likely you are being used.
He gets mad if there is no sex
If you don’t want sex, a man starts whining, frustrated, and grumbling, only if he only needs sex from you.
He doesn’t add you as a friend
If you are not among friends on any of his social networks, and he himself does not even like your photos on Instagram, then he probably does this so as not to sleep in front of his main lady of the heart, who definitely saw our article on how to understand that a man changes. If everything is fine in your relationship, then why is he not in a hurry to let you into his online life?
