It is important not to do something against your will or desires in order to be normal or to receive some kind of pressure.
Communication is paramount during sexual intercourse. Without it, how can we know what the other likes and vice versa? ”The way we communicate can enrich our sexuality or deteriorate it. In this second case, the communication is usually accompanied by reproaches, criticism, or complaints. In the first, the couple focuses on contributing and building”, says the sexologist Georgina Burgos.
In this sense, communication plays a key role in oral SEX, a very common practice within sexual relationships, but not everyone likes it. ”Some people find it disgusting or they think it will be unpleasant for the couple. Also out of shame and because the sensations of this type of stimulation are not pleasurable for some,” explains the sexologist.
The way we communicate can enrich our sexuality or deteriorate it
Thus, the details that ”it is important not to do something against one’s own will or desires in order to be normal or to receive some kind of pressure. The statistics entail a risk of normalizing by generalizing when the sexual life is extremely peculiar for each one”.
For her part, Valérie Tasso, writer, sexologist, and LELO ambassador, states that “it is important to understand sex as a privileged activity to strengthen ties with your partner and increase complicity and trust. That allows you to have a more fluid communication, either to tell him what you like or to talk about what you have not enjoyed at all or what you do not feel comfortable with”.
Likewise, she comments, “if you would like to try new things or introduce the use of erotic toys to your partner, it is also important to talk about it with your partner and find out what they think about it. These aspects that are so simple in theory (but that, in practice, are not so simple) are the ingredients that usually define solid couples”.
